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Hi. I'm Layla. Welcome to My Website For Couples Play. More Photos at End.

This is my website for couples. My couples playtime is much more freestyle than my singles playtime. I have very lengthy descriptions of my singles playtime in my website for singles:

https://laylatampa363.wixsite.com/layla

AVAILABILITY:

I will be generally be available from about 9 am until about 11 pm Mondays through Saturdays. I suggest that I visit you at your residence or your hotel room. You will naturally feel more comfortable in your own home.

CONTACT INFORMATION AND HOW TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT:

The best way to contact me is to send an email to me. My email address is:

LaylaTampa36@GMail.Com

When you send an email to me, please include this information: both of your first names, your ages, your general occupations. After we have exchanged emails, I will ask you for a phone number to your cell phone. I will ask for a way to verify you. We can pick a day and time to meet. I will call you at an agreed-upon, preset time to talk to you and to get directions. I find that it is usually best for all three of us to talk on a conference call.

DONATIONS AND DISCLAIMER:

I ask for donations for my time. I do not ask for donations for any specific services. I provide body rubs – not massages, as I am not licensed to provide massages. And of course I provide limited escort services. I ask for a donation based solely as a voluntary donation made in exchange for time, not for specific services.

I usually provide two types of services: body rubs (usually with a happy ending) and limited escort services. With a couple, there are many possible permutations. Your wife half and I could both work together to give your husband half a body rub; your husband half and I could both work together to give your wife half a body rub; we could do both of those things. Then we could do happy endings or we could do escort endings. Or perhaps we skip the body rub portions altogether and jump right into the escort stuff.

V.I.P. SESSION:

$1000 for two hours if playing with one; add $400 for playing with other

$1400 for three hours if playing with one; add $400 for playing with other

$1600 for four hours if playing with one; add $400 for playing with other

OVERNIGHT SESSION:

$3500 (12 to 16 hours; may include dinner and/or entertainment event and/or breakfast)

LUNCH DATES, DINNER DATES, CONCERTS, SPORTING EVENTS, ETC:

$300 for each hour

SWINGERS' CLUB:

Would you like to take me along with the two of you to a swinger's club? Usually that means staying at the club about 4 to 5 hours. $2,000. I play well with others!

E.D. and P.E. TREATMENTS AND PROSTATE MASSAGE:

Please add an additional $100 donation for Erectile Dysfunction (E.D.) and Premature Ejaculation (P.E.) issues or Prostate Massage. Full descriptions are provided below.

A COUPLE IS TWO:

This is my website for couples. A couple means two people -- a man and a woman. If you want to meet as a couple, it is important that both of you are in complete agreement. This cannot be a "surprise" for either the husband or the wife. Before we meet, I will want to speak to both of you together on a conference call. This will prevent marital misunderstandings! I am a fully bi-sexual woman. I love to meet with men and I love to meet with women, so of course I really love to meet with a man and a woman!

Would you like to know a little about my system of giving great body rubs? Here it is. After this description, I will describe my thoughts on E.D. and P.E. and Prostate Massage:

MY THREE SESSIONS COMBINED ONE AFTER ANOTHER:

I provide three separate types of body rubs, all in one session: near-therapeutic (60 minutes for a session that lasts for an hour and a hour as well as for a session that lasts for two hours); dermal stimulation (12 minutes for an hour and a half session; 20 minutes for a two hour session), and epidermal stimulation (12 minutes for an hour and a half session; 20 minutes for a two hour session). During these three sessions, I add three teases: a strip tease, a nipple tease, and a genital tease.

The First Session, the Therapeutic Session, is designed to relax the muscles of the body – ALL the muscles of the body.

The Second Session, the Scratching Session, is designed to stimulate the middle layer of the skin – ALL the skin of the body.

The Third Session, the Fingertip Session, is designed to soothe and calm the outer layer of the skin – ALL the skin of the body.

SESSION 1: NEAR-THERAPEUTIC BODY RUB:

Let me briefly describe each of the three body rub types. The first body rub is a near-therapeutic body rub. I cannot call that a massage because I am not licensed yet. Only a licensed professional can provide a true therapeutic massage! And the internet has a special place for those licensed professionals to advertise. I imitate the style of those professionals. I imitate their techniques -- kneading, rolling, etc. But I provide body rubs, not massages.

I use light tissue body rubs instead of deep tissue body rubs. Why do I use light tissue instead of deep tissue?

First, I do so because human bodies prefer light tissue over deep tissue. You are probably an older (45 to 75) professional gentleman who is either retired or working in executive positions. You likely do not have sore muscles that need to be relaxed. You probably have the same exact stress on your body that your secretary has – stress from being at a desk in front of a computer all day. You are probably not a blue-collar worker like a carpenter or roofer. You probably are not a sports athlete. A deep-tissue body rub leaves most human bodies sore for one or two days, yet provides little to no actual sensuous pleasure – that is, a deep-tissue body rub does not please the sense of touch. .

You likely crave human touch. You likely prefer soft, sensuous touches over firm kneading. Many professional, licensed spas deliver extremely deep tissue massages that often leave clients sore for one or two days afterward. My clients hate that! My clients prefer soft, loving, gentle touches. (And often lotion takes away the intimate feeling of skin on skin touches, so I use very, very little lotion.)

Second, a deep-tissue body rub is hard on a provider’s hands, and causes them to be more concerned with their own pain than with your comfort. Many such providers develop carpal tunnel syndrome, arthritis, and other work-related injuries over time. My session is easy on my hands! I go from light tissue to an even lighter scratching session to a super light fingertip session. I will be just about as relaxed during our time together as you, so I am able to focus my attention solely on you.

Because I use a light touch for the light-tissue near-therapeutic body rub, I usually find I do not need any lotion at all. Certainly I can never use any on your neck/head/face. Likely, you do not have any sore muscles in your arms, and thus I probably will not need to use any lotion on your arms/hands/fingers. This is true of your legs/feet/toes as well. That means that the only place where I will be tempted to use any lotion is on your back and buttocks. You can feel the softness of my skin, and I can feel yours.

Where do I start my body rub?

Most professionals have a system. That system is pretty much the same for all professionals, with individual variations and nuances. Professionals divide the human body into sections. The most common division is six parts as follows: 1. neck/head/face; 2. right arm/hand/fingers; 3. left arm/hand/fingers; 4. right leg/foot/toes; 5. left leg/foot/toes; 6. back and buttocks. As each division is completed, the massage therapist "summarizes" that division. For a proper 60-minute session, each division receives 10 minutes of attention (9 minutes of massage attention followed by a 1-minute summary).

I follow that system. Like most professionals, I divide the neck/head/face division into distinct subparts: lower neck muscles, upper neck muscles, scalp, temples, forehead, bridge connection, jaw muscles, chin muscles, lip muscles. I start a session with you lying on the table with your face toward the ceiling. I stand at the head of the table and start by relaxing your shoulders and upper back muscles (2 minutes). Then I do a “scalp body rub” using two different techniques.

First, I use the heels of my open palms to rock your scalp back and forth slowly, while allowing my fingers to slide up and down over your ears. I do this for a reason: it is a foreshadowing that I will be touching areas of your body that no one has ever touched before!

Second, I use firm fingertips to firmly caress your scalp. I’ll ask which of the two methods you prefer, and then use that method (2 minutes). Then I move on to the forehead, using the same type of open palm body rub to rock your forehead back and forth slowly. From there, I move on to your temples, starting with the heels of my hands and then switching to my thumbs.

Now the face body rub starts in earnest. I move on to your jaw muscles – which are the strongest human muscle as measured by weight. Then the chin and lip muscles. I will then use two index fingertips to relax the pressure points at the bridge of your nose and the base of each of your ears. I will gently rub your ears! (5 minutes for a full face body rub.)

I will conclude that first division with a 1-minute summary! I will repeat briefly all the steps in the same sequence as originally executed. Now, 10 minutes have elapsed and the first division is finished.

Then it is time to begin the second division – your left arm/hand/fingers. When moving from one division to another I will make sure I keep at least one hand, and preferably two hands, on your body at all times. I will either glide them over your body from one division to the next, or I will lift them one at a time, letting the first one land before lifting the second one. This is called CONTINUITY.

Experts divide the arm/hand/fingers section into two upper arm muscle groups (mostly the biceps and triceps), the forearm muscle groups, and the various hand and finger muscle groups. I will start with your shoulders, stretch out your arms, and work downward toward your hands – upper arm muscles (2 minutes), followed by your lower arm muscles (2 minutes). Then I will go to your hand rub.

To start with the hand rub, I will stretch out your hand from the back side of the hand and then separately from the palm side of the hand. I will treat your hand like pizza dough! After I stretch out the hand from both sides, I will go to the fingers. I’ll start with the thumb (stretch and twist 3 times), then the index finger (stretch and twist 3 times), then the middle finger (stretch and twist 3 times), then the ring finger (stretch and twist 3 times), then the pinky finger (stretch and twist 3 times). I will always hold your hand in one of my hands, and use my other hand to execute the finger massages. Holding your hand in my hand feels so nice!!.

Next I have a very special treat for your hand – an interlocking-finger, open-palm massage. I will literally use all 10 of my digits to intertwine your 5 digits, and use my thumbs to “massage” the pads of your thumb and four fingers and then your palm.

To execute the interlocking finger treatment, I keep my two thumbs free for use in the treatment, place my two index fingers on the outside of your digits (one outside your thumb, the other outside your pinky finger). It will look like this. On my right hand (since I will start on your left hand, with your left hand palm up and my two palms up), my right thumb will be free, my right index finger will be on the outside of your thumb, my right middle finger and ring finger will fill the interspace between your thumb and your index finger, my right pinky finger will fill the interspace between your index finger and your middle finger, my left pinky finger will fill the interspace between your middle finger and your ring finger, my left ring and middle finger will fill the interspace between your ring ringer and your pinky finger, and my left index finger will be outside your pinky finger.

You probably do not know just how pleasurable the sensation of having the areas of the skin on the sides of your fingers actually is until you experience that pleasure for the first time! Probably no one ever touches that area of your body – not even your significant other. The only time in our lives when another human touches us there is when we are holding hands with fingers intertwined – a rare event - and one associated with great romantic pleasure.

I will now use my two thumbs to treat the pads of your palm and then your entire palm.

I will finish the hand rub by using one of my index fingers to rub the ligaments of the hand (upward). I have now spent a total of 5 minutes on your left hand and fingers. I will do a 1-minute summary. I will review briefly the shoulder, upper arm, lower arm, hand and finger treatments that I have been through (10 minutes).

Then I will repeat the same process for the other arm/hand/fingers division. When switching from the second division (left arm/hand/fingers) to the third division (right arm/hand/fingers), I will be sure I keep at least one hand, and preferably two hands, on your body at all times. I will either glide them over your body from one division to the next, or I will lift them one at a time, letting the first one land before lifting the second one. (CONTINUITY)

The third division will be a mirror image of the second division. And I will follow the exact same process that I followed for the first! PREDICTABILITY. You will know exactly what to expect! (10 minutes)

When I move on to the fourth division – your left leg/foot/toes (maintaining CONTINUITY) – you can almost predict what to expect: a sequence very similar to the second and third divisions (PREDICTABILITY). In other words, I will do your legs/feet/toes just like I did your arms/hands/fingers.

Experts divide the leg/foot/toes section into two upper leg muscle groups (those in the front of the leg, those in the back of the leg), the lower leg muscles, and the various foot and toe muscle groups. I will start by stretching out your leg, and work downward toward your foot – upper leg muscles (2 minutes), followed by your lower leg muscles (2 minutes). Then I’ll go to the foot massage (which will take 5 minutes).

I want to do each foot in a manner similar to the way I did each hand (PREDICTABILITY). For the hand, I had one special treat – the interlocking-finger, open-palm massage. For the foot, I have three very special treats – 1. the six twisted pretzel steps; 2. a treatment of the four interspaces of the toes (I cannot interlock my 10 digits, so I use only my index finger, one interspace at a time); 3. hot towel compresses before and after.

Before I start the foot treatment, we – you and I – have a decision to make. Should I use the hot towel compress system on the foot or should I skip it? This system takes about 10 minutes per foot. If I am doing a 2-hour massage, the first session (the near-therapeutic session) takes one hour, leaving just one hour for the second session (the scratching session) and the third session (the fingertip session). If I use the hot towel compress system on each foot, I will use 10 minutes of time per foot, or 20 minutes total. That would leave just 40 minutes for the second and third sessions, instead of 60 minutes. A hot towel compress of the foot is a great luxury. It is something that can never be forgotten.

Here is why I think a hot towel compress is a good way to start the foot rub. The foot bears all the weight of the entire body, and thus bears the greatest level of stress. To help relax your foot most effectively, I like to start with a hot towel compress. The moist heat will help your body to relax your foot muscles most effectively. I also use the hot towel compress to wash your foot! So I wrap the hot, wet towel around your entire foot, then gently twist my hands in an opposing way to clean the foot, then clean between the toes. The heat will help your body to relax the foot muscles. Then I will remove the hot towel compress and begin the massage of your foot. Now I have a warm, moist, relaxed foot to work on.

Once you and I have decided whether or not to use the hot towel compress system, I will start the treatment of your foot. To start your foot massage, I stretch out your foot from the top side of your foot and then separately from the bottom side of your foot. I will treat your foot like pizza dough, just like I did your hands!

After I stretch out your foot from both sides, I will go to your toes. I’ll start with the big toe (stretch and twist 3 times), then the “index toe” (stretch and twist 3 times), then the “middle toe” (stretch and twist 3 times), then the “ring toe” (stretch and twist 3 times), then the “pinky toe” (stretch and twist 3 times). I will always hold your foot in one of my hands, and use my other hand to execute the toe treatments. Holding your foot in my hand is a nice feeling.

Here is how I do the second very special treat for your foot – the six twisted pretzel steps.

I will use 6 separate techniques to treat each foot. I call these the six twisted pretzels. I will announce each of the six separate techniques to you as I do them and ask you which of the six is the most enjoyable. Then I’ll use that technique.

I will say, “Here is the first way. I am placing my two thumbs on the same side of your foot with one thumb on your upper arch and one thumb on your lower arch and twisting back and forth, keeping firm pressure on each hand.”

I will do that for a few seconds, and then I will say, “Here is the second way. I am placing my two thumbs on the same side of your foot with one thumb on your upper arch and one thumb on your lower arch and twisting back and forth, without pressure, letting each hand slide across your foot.”

I will do that for a few seconds, and then I will say, “Here is the third way. I am placing my two thumbs on opposing sides of your foot with one thumb on your upper arch pointed one way and with the other thumb on your lower arch pointed the other way, and twisting back and forth, keeping firm pressure on each hand.”

I will do that for a few seconds, and then I will say: “Here is the fourth way. I am placing my two thumbs on opposing sides of your foot with one thumb on your upper arch pointed one way and with the other thumb on your lower arch pointed the other way, without pressure, letting each hand slide across your foot.”

I will do that for a few seconds, and then I will say, “Here is the fifth way. I am going to use my knuckles to stimulate your upper arch and move slowly to your lower arch.”

I will do that for a few seconds, and then I will say, “Here is the sixth way. I am going to use the heel of my hand to stimulate your upper arch and move slowly to your lower arch.”

Then I will ask, “Which of those six methods do you like the best: Number 1, with thumbs on the same side, with firm pressure twisting back and forth; Number 2, with thumbs on the same side, with no pressure, gliding back and forth; Number 3, with thumbs on opposing sides, with firm pressure twisting back and forth; Number 4, with thumbs on opposing sides, with no pressure, gliding back and forth; Number 5, with knuckles; or, Number 6, with the heels of my palms.”

There is no right or wrong answer: I will just go with what you like best!

After I use the six twisted pretzel techniques, I will rub the inter-spaces between your toes. I use just one index finger for this. The sensation of having the areas of skin on the sides of your toes touched is an exquisite pleasure few will ever forget! Yes, I will use one of my index fingers to lovingly caress the inter-spaces of your toes one by one (not multiple interlocking like the fingers between there just isn’t enough room!).

I will start with the inter-space between your big toe and your “index toe” with my index finger approaching from the bottom side of your foot; I will roll my index finger back and forth in the inter-space, then push down on the top of the inter-space and glide toward your ankle. I will repeat for the other 3 inter-spaces in proper order. You probably do not know just how pleasurable the sensation of having the areas of skin on the sides of your toes actually is until you experience that pleasure for the first time! Probably no one has ever touched that area of your body – not even your significant other – ever!

(2 minutes for upper leg muscles, 2 minutes for lower leg muscles, 5 minutes for the feet/toes, and a 1-minute summary; total of 10 minutes. Add 10 minutes to that if I do the before and after hot towel compresses). Sometimes I do the upper and lower leg muscles of both legs so that I can do both feet one right after the other.

After I do the rub portion of each foot, I once again apply a hot towel compress to that foot. Then I do another fun thing: as I remove the hot wet towel by pulling it off, I replace it inch by inch with a hot dry towel. I heat the dry towel as it replaces the wet towel with a hair dryer! And once in a while, I run the hair dryer up and down your body to warm you up! It feels heavenly. And probably no one has ever used a hair dryer to go over your whole body before!

Have you ever had a hot towel compress applied to your feet in your whole life? It is an exquisite pleasure. The hair dryer treatment: an amazing and wonderful feeling. Waving the blow dryer over your entire body is an additional special treat.

I have now finished the fourth division – your left leg/foot/toes, and now I am ready to move onto the fifth division – your right leg/foot/toes. Of course, I will maintain CONTINUITY. And you should be able to precisely predict what to expect: an exact mirror image of what I did to the fourth division – your left leg/foot/toes (PREDICTABILITY). (Total of 10 minutes. Add 10 minutes to that if I do the before and after hot towel compresses.)

And now we move on to the sixth and final division (maintaining CONTINUITY). The back consists of the upper back, the middle back, and the lower back. Let's not ignore the butt; that is where the most powerful muscles of the body – the upper leg muscles – connect to the main pelvic bone. That area is always knotted and needs attention. I rub both sides at the same time, using both of my hands. I will use three different techniques: thumbs only; knuckles; heels of my palms. I will ask which technique you like the most, then I will use that technique.

And then the rest of the muscle groups found there need attention. Every human being on the face of the planet loves a great butt massage!! (You have probably predicted this: 2 minutes on the upper back, 2 minutes on the lower back, 2 minutes on the legs, 2 minutes on the butt, and a 2-minute summary.)

Not counting the separate identities of each finger and each toe, there are some 20 separate areas to address, plus the 6 summaries. Add the fingers and toes and there are really 40 separate areas. True professionals hate to conduct a session in less than a full hour because each area barely receives a minute of attention.

SUMMARY:

2 minutes on the upper neck muscles,
2 minutes on the scalp,
5 minutes on the face,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion session. (10 minutes elapsed)

2 minutes on the upper left arm,
2 minutes on the lower left arm,
5 minutes on the left hand,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 20 minutes)

2 minutes on the upper right arm,
2 minutes on the lower right arm,
5 minutes on the right hand,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 30 minutes)

2 minutes on the upper left leg,
2 minutes on the lower left leg,
5 minutes on the left foot,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 40 minutes)

2 minutes on the upper right leg,
2 minutes on the lower right leg,
5 minutes on the right foot,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 50 minutes)

2 minutes on the upper back,
2 minutes on the lower back,
2 minutes on the legs,
3 minutes on the upper leg muscle connections and the butt muscles,
1 minute to “summarize” that portion of the session. (10 minutes elapsed, total 60 minutes)

Every part of you body wants different levels of pressure, I must ask you questions! That requires an exchange of information. If you really want the restaurant to prepare your meal the exact way you want it prepared, you will need to exchange that information with the server. They can not guess what you want and they do not have any special ESP powers. It is the same between you and I: an exchange of information is the best way to get the body rub pressures you want.

SESSION 2: THE DERMAL SESSION (SCRATCHING):

After that near-therapeutic, muscle-relaxing body rub, let's move on to the dermal stimulation body rub. This session is designed to stimulate the middle layer of skin. That is much easier to do than it might sound! And in fact you have done it to yourself every day of your life, and your significant other has probably done that for you a few times as well. It is as simple as a scratch. But try to convince her to scratch your body all over – 100% – and you'll find it an unlikely scenario.

But that is exactly what I do. In this 2nd type of body rub, I go back over all 6 divisions, all 20 sub-parts, all 40 sub-sub-parts, once again – with a gentle scratching technique. A scratching session of the whole body is one of life’s grandest pleasures.

Please allow me to describe in detail how I perform my Scratching Session.

You should already be lying on the table face down, back up. This is because we started the Near-Therapeutic Session with you on your back for the first 50 minutes, then flipped you face down for the last 10 minutes. So I will start our Scratching Session with you face down, back up.

Remember, this is a gentle scratch – no marks!! If you want more pressure on certain areas, just ask for more pressure (i.e., just say “scratch harder, please!”). I will not leave any physical marks – just emotional traces!!!!

I will start Session 2 by scratching your scalp. All of us humans are just like dogs in this respect: the love of having our heads scratched! After that, I will move on to a great back scratch. I use two techniques to scratch your back: the Straight Line Technique and the Mow-the-Lawn Technique. I will let you tell me which Technique you prefer. And I use four different sets of scratches: ten fingernails, five fingernails, two fingernails (two index fingernails), and one fingernail (one index fingernail).

I will start with the Straight Line Technique. To begin, I will softly place all ten of my fingernails on that point of your neck where your hairline ends. I will slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down the center of your back – over your spinal column, which I did not touch during our Near-Therapeutic Session – all the way to the bottom of your back and top of your butt. Then I will lift my right hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the right side of your body. Then I will lift my left hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the left side of your body. I do not lift both hands off at the same time because I do not want to break the CONTINUITY!!

I will once again slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down your back – but now I am about two inches away from each side of your spinal column – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. Then I will lift my right hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the right side of your body. Then I will lift my left hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the left side of your body. I do not lift both hands off at the same time because I do not want to break the continuity!!

I will once again slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down your back – but now I am about four inches away from each side of your spinal column – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. Then I will lift my right hand up and move it back to your neck, but about four inches over toward the right side of your body. Then I will lift my left hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the left side of your body. I do not lift both hands off at the same time because I do not want to break the continuity!!

I will follow this process until I have scratched as far to your sides as possible – down to the table!! That is just one trip down the back. Now I will use a second technique to scratch your back, and then I’ll ask you which technique you like better.

The second technique, the Mow-The-Lawn Technique, is very similar to the first technique, the Straight Line Technique, but it eliminates the problem of breaking continuity. In this technique, my ten fingernails remain on your back the entire time.

I will softly place all ten of my fingernails on that point of your neck where your hairline ends. I will slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down the center of your back – over your spinal column, which I did not touch during our Near-Therapeutic Session – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. Then I will move my ten fingernails outward – five to the right and five to the left, of course – as far out as they can go, which probably is the point where your sides meet the table! Then I will bring all ten of my fingernails straight upwards until I reach your shoulder. Then I will move all my ten fingernails inward toward the center of your neck, until I reach a point about two inches from your spinal column. This process is just like mowing the lawn!!

Now I will once again slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down your back – but now I am about 2 inches away from each side of your spinal column – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. From there, I will continue to “mow your back” until your back has been completely mowed. Who knew mowing could be such a thrill?

Now I have made one pass using Technique 1 (Straight Line) and one pass using Technique 2 (Mow-The-Lawn). I’ll ask you which one you liked better. Then I’ll repeat that process several more times. I will change sets – first using 10 fingernails, then using 5 fingernails from 1 hand, then using 2 index fingernails, then using just 1 index fingernail.

After that, I’ll expand the range of my scratching – this time going all the way from the neck to the ends of your toes! I will use whichever technique you liked for just the back. Then I’ll repeat that process several more times. And with 10, 5, 2, then 1 fingernails.

Then I will reduce the range of my scratching – this time going from the top of your butt to the ends of your toes. Then I will further reduce the range of my scratching – this time going from the back of your knees to the ends of your toes. Then I will further reduce the range of my scratching – this time going just from your heel to the ends of your toes. And I will go through the 10-5-2-1 system.

Then I will do the back sides of your arms – going from your shoulders to your fingertips using 10 fingernails, then 5 fingernails, then 2 fingernails, then 1 fingernail. And I will keep reducing the range of my scratching – back of elbows to fingertips, then wrists to fingertips. And with each I may go through the 10-5-2-1 system.

After that, it will be time to flip onto your back so I can repeat this for the front side of your body!! I am going to do something to you that no one has ever done before – I am going to scratch every cell of your face – except your eyelids!! I would say “every square inch of your face” but your face is not square, it is round. Again, this is a light, gentle scratch – no marks! You have no idea how wonderful it feels to have your face scratched – but now you will know it is something you will want to have on a regular basis! Even your ears will receive my tender loving attention!

Then I will scratch your front side in the same manner as I scratched your back side – starting with Technique 1 (Straight Line Technique) from neck to waist once, then with Technique 2 (Mow-The-Lawn Technique) from neck to waist once, then two or three times using your preferred technique, then two or three times using your preferred technique from neck to feet. And I will vary from 10 fingernails to 5 fingernails to 2 fingernails to 1 fingernail. Then, as with the back side, I will reduce the range – waist to the ends of your toes, then knees to the ends of your toes, then ankles to the ends of your toes. And I will use the 10-5-2-1 system for each reduction.

Then I will do your arms. Needless to say, I will follow pretty much the same pattern for the arms – starting at your neck and coming down to your fingertips. However, I will now add a new twist: after the first pass at mowing the arms/hands, I’ll switch over from using ten fingernails to using just five fingernails, then two fingernails (two index fingernails), then one fingernail (the index fingernail of one of my hands) – from the neck all the way down to the end of your thumb. Then I’ll ask whether you prefer the feeling of all ten of my fingernails, five fingernails, two fingernails, or just one of my fingernails. Once I know whether your prefer ten, five, two or one, I’ll repeat the process a few times on each of your arms/hands. And I will reduce the range – elbow to fingertips, wrists to fingertips. And I will use the 10-5-2-1 system for each reduction.

And from here, I will be ready to start Session Three.

SESSION 3: THE EPIDERMAL SESSION (FINGERTIP TOUCHING):

Now the Second Session, the Scratching Session, has ended. It is time to begin the Third Session – the Fingertip Session. The Third Session, the Fingertip Session, is designed to soothe and calm the outer layer of the skin (the epidermis). During this session, I will use just my soft fingertips using very, very light touches. It feels as gentle as the sensation of a single feather gently moving across your skin. It feels heavenly. For many parts of your body, this will feel like tickling! For those areas, we will either apply more pressure to eliminate that tickling sensation or we will skip over those areas!

You should already be lying on the table face up. We ended the Second Session, the Scratching Session, with your feet. We will begin the Third Session, the Fingertip Session, with your face! So I will need to wash my hands at this point. Has anyone ever lovingly caressed your face? If so, you know that a gentle touching of the face says “I Love You” more effectively than words can ever communicate!

You came to me for a body rub, a physical touching to relax your muscles and provide pleasure to your skin. Yet in reality a mere physical touching is not quite enough if it is not done in a caring, loving manner. A robot can touch you, but you will never feel emotionally satisfied. Only a human can touch you in a caring, loving manner that satisfies you emotionally. And only a woman who is genuinely interested in you can satisfy you emotionally as well as physically.

No part of the body – NO PART – says “I Love You” as much as the face. However, you can’t tell if someone loves you just by looking at their face. They may be beautiful, they may be smiling, but to really know, it takes more than a look. It takes a touch. If you want to know how love feels, it’s in the touching of your face. I am going to touch your face in a way that effectively says “I Love You” and makes you feel emotionally satisfied!! If you want to know how love feels, it’s in my touching of your face.

After I lovingly caress your face, first with all ten fingertips, then with just five fingertips, then with just two index fingertips, then with just one index fingertip, it will be time to move on to the rest of your body. Let’s start at your neck and then move on to your waist. We’ll use the same kind of techniques that we used for the scratching – ten fingertips in straight lines (Technique 1) and then ten fingertips in a lawn-mowing fashion (Technique 2). Once you tell me your preference, we’ll repeat that process two or three times.

After that, I’ll expand the range of my gentle touching – this time going all the way from your neck to the ends of your toes!! I will use whichever technique you liked for just the chest area. Then I’ll repeat that process two or three more times. Then I switch sets. I will repeat the neck-to-toes process using five fingertips from one hand, then again using two index fingertips, then again using one index fingertip. I will ask which you like the best and use that. And then I will reduce the range of my touches – waist to ends of your toes, knees to ends of your toes, ankles to ends of your toes. And I will use the 10-5-2-1 system with each reduction.

After that, it will be time for the arms. Needless to say, I will follow pretty much the same pattern for the arms – starting at the neck and coming down to ends of your fingertips. Then I will use the 10-5-2-1 system. And then I will use the same reducing systems that I used in Session 2: elbows to fingertips, wrists to fingertips. And I will use the 10-5-2-1 system with each reduction.

Now it is time to roll over yet again. Now the back side of your body will receive the same kind of treatment that it received before for the Scratching Session, but this time with the soothing, gentle, loving touches of my soft fingertips instead of the scratching of my fingernails. But this time we’ll add a bit of a twist. After being completely finished with the back side of your body, I will spend two or three minutes giving super gentle touches all over your butt, starting with several passes using ten fingertips, ending with several passes of just two fingertips that slowly slide down the crack toward the most intimate areas of your body!!”

Now the Third Session, the Fingertip Session, comes to a close. It is time to begin the Final Session of our time together – the Erotic Session.

THE EROTIC SESSION:

If you have opted for the Companionship Session, then the Erotic Session consists of Happy Endings. If you have opted for the VIP session, then the Erotic Session consists of Escort Endings -- for either one or you or both of you or for all three of us!!!

First let me describe how I give a Happy Ending to a man.

HAPPY ENDING TO A MAN:

Every woman will provide a body rub to at least one man during the course of her lifetime that includes a traditional Happy Ending using her hands. Gals on EROS and SLIXA and other internet sites become "experts" at that type of Happy Ending. And in fact you have probably given yourself many Happy Endings!

Most gals follow one of two "techniques": 1. they ask the gentleman how he masturbates himself and they try to imitate his "technique", or: 2. they just use some sort of up and down "rub and tug" "technique". I emphasize the word "technique" because in reality most gals do not really follow any systematic process that could really be called a "technique".

I prefer to follow the "GEISHA GIRL" technique of providing a prolonged, erotic Happy Ending. The chances are pretty good you have never visited a real Geisha Girl in Japan and thus you probably have no idea of what I am talking about. I would love to provide a ten-page description of a proper Geisha Girl Happy Ending, but EROS and SLIXA and other sites censor such descriptions very, very heavily so I cannot do so on those sites. That is why I have created this Webpage. (In fact, I can not even use the words “Happy Ending”, “Head”, “Hands”, and many other simple words on those sites because those words are censored!)

And I won't go into long detail over the phone to describe a Geisha Girl Happy Ending -- too many guys are simply trying to masturbate themselves while I give the description over the phone. So I will try to describe a Geisha Girl Happy Ending to you.

I offer two different kinds of Happy Endings: Traditional or Geisha.

For a Traditional American Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that you use your hands when you provide your own Happy Ending to your own masturbation sessions. In order to do this, I will need to ask you how you do this part when you are by yourself! If you use your right hand when you pleasure yourself, then I’ll use my right hand standing at your right side so that my hand is in the same position your hand would be in. If you use up and down motions with pressure on the downward motion, I will do the same. If you add a twisting motion, so will I. Perhaps you can show me a stroke or two! I will try to do as you would do unto yourself!

For a Geisha Japanese Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that the Geisha Girls of Japan use their hands when they provide Happy Endings to gentlemen. It is extremely unlikely that you know what this is – unless you have been to Japan!! This Geisha type of Happy Ending is radically different than a Traditional Happy Ending usually given in the United States.

A Geisha Girl spends a considerable amount of time and effort diligently applying different techniques of an exquisitely erotic and sensual nature to the most private part of your body in an intelligent, thoughtful manner. A Geisha Girl keeps 2 hands on the gentleman’s genitals at all times, with both hands doing different things.

Usually, one hand strokes the shaft of the penis in upward/downward motions, sometimes with a gentle twisting motion, and using various degrees of pressure. This hand may extend down and caress the testicles from time to time, as desired, but never extends upward enough to touch the head of the penis.

The other hand focuses solely on the head of the penis at all times. This hand explores the head of the penis much like your hand explores a clitoris and /or vagina – which is to say, with extreme interest! Sometimes the fingertips form a circle around the crest of the head, sometimes just one fingertip circles the crest. Sometimes the fingertips go up and down like an octopus. Sometimes the entire hand closes, using various degrees of pressure from time to time.

Then the unexpected element of playfulness enters in. You have probably played with a woman’s clitoris during the course of your lifetime. You have probably rubbed your fingers up and down, side to side. You have twisted it, pulled it, tugged it, and even strummed your fingers across it. You absolutely loved playing with that clitoris. Don’t you wish you had a woman who would absolutely love playing with your penis as much as you love playing with a clitoris?

As the moment for the ultimate explosion nears, the hand stroking the shaft of the penis increases pressure and intensity and speed, while the hand attending the head of the penis forms itself into the shape of a vaginal opening. Your penis will think it is pumping in and out of a vagina!

When you give yourself a Happy Ending, you probably follow the same exact routine each and every time, with no experimenting. You probably use the same hand in the same location using the same kind of stroke and the same amount of pressure. And when you visit a gal for a Happy Ending, she probably follows her own way of providing a Happy Ending – or perhaps asks you how you do it.

But it would be an extremely rare event for a woman to really, really focus her love and attention on your penis the way that you have loved and attended a clitoris!! And no matter how much you might want to lavish your own love and attentions on your own penis, you can not do so. It would never feel good! You can not tickle yourself. No one can. You can only be tickled by someone else. The same is true of what I am trying to describe! Only another person can give your penis the kind of love and attention I am describing!

And as good as that description may sound, I know this: you’ll have a lot of personal favorite things! So tell them to me. I want you to have the best Happy Ending you can possibly have!

I do not have a video that shows me providing a Happy Ending. But I have found a video that I like, so I'll give you the cite so you may watch for yourself:”

http://xhamster.com/movies/1309574/the_best_cock_massage.html?s=6

That video has been deleted by the poster. Here are some others I like:

https://www.xvideos.com/video24972865/lingam_tantra_massage

https://www.xvideos.com/video11467229/hot_handjob_lingam_massage

https://www.xvideos.com/video2513766/kinkyfoxy_handjob_massage

https://www.xvideos.com/video14346895/french_beauty_giving_amazing_handjob_findherhere.tk

A lot of clients have asked me if the gal in the video is me. When I say it is not me, they ask for a description of the differences between her session and mine. This is how I respond:

No, that is not me in the video. That is an actress! Our sessions are similar, but different.

Differences:

First, I deliver a professional body rub for 60 minutes. I am trained in the art of providing body rubs -- which are very similar to massages. Second, I scratch the entire body for about 10 minutes. Third, I gently touch the entire body with gentle fingertip touches for about 10 minutes. I use three teases: strip tease, nipple tease, genital tease. I use two nondiscernible techniques: continuity, predictability. The gal in the video does not do those things. She does not do a strip tease -- she keeps her clothes on, I take mine off. She does not do a nipple tease. She does not do a genital tease -- she just grabs it with no teasing. She takes hands on and off and on and off -- I keep at least one hand on at all times. Where her hands will land after she takes them off is unpredictable!!! With me, you'll exactly what is coming next without me explaining!!

Similarities:

I include her video as an example of how a Happy Ending may involve traditional styles and / or geisha styles. She blends the two styles in alternating formats. I love the way she does that. [I do not like her lack of the teases, her lack of continuity, her lack of predictability, her general body rub technique.]

Another difference:

The gal in the video has a young man who is full of pep and energy. He is on his hands and knees the whole time, and he has a penis long enough to allow the gal to give it plenty of attention. In the real world, not many men have a penis that long, nor are most men comfortable in that position for that long of a period of time. I find that men are more comfortable lying on their backs with their penis staring straight up at the ceiling -- or me!

The Main Point:

The main point is that the gal in the video delivers a supremely wonderful Happy Ending. [Granted, the man in the video seems completely unaware of her presence – at least there is a successful ending.] The main point is that Happy Endings can be better than Great Sex if done in a creative, intelligent, artistic, thoughtful way!!

HAPPY ENDING TO A WOMAN:

It goes without saying that giving a Happy Ending to a woman is vastly different that giving a Happy Ending to a man. A woman has many more erotic zones, and it is important to touch (pun) all the erotic zones.

V.I.P. ENDINGS:

You have likely made love to more than one woman in your lifetime, and you know that every woman is a little bit different. And it is likely than more than one woman has made love to you in your lifetime. In fact, every woman makes love differently every time she makes love and every man makes love differently every time he makes love. When we are in person, tell me what you like and don't like and let's have some serious adult fun!

Most men have the most pleasure when they can freely pleasure the woman. Most men want the woman to have an orgasm. Most men want to give oral pleasures to the woman. The good news: I live to receive, and I found this quote: "Eating pussy is a natural antidepressant." [Please excuse the course language. That is a direct quote.]

This is a three-way opportunity. You both want to please each other and you both want me to please me. I want to please both of you. We all want to please and we all want to be pleased. The most important part to me: when we make each other feel like a billion dollars. Not just sexually, but emotionally as well.

NOT A PERFECT WORLD -- E.D. HAPPENS, P.E. HAPPENS, PROSTATE ISSUES HAPPEN:

I am a woman who lives in the real world. In the real world, things are not as perfect as we would like them to be. In the real world, gentlemen sometimes have issues that prevent them from having as much fun as they would like to have, gentlemen have issues that diminish their performances. As men age, challenges may arise. The three main challenges that I have come across are Erectile Dysfunction (E.D.) issues, Premature Ejaculation (P.E.) issues, and Prostate issues.

May I ask if your husband half has any issues or challenges?

I have given these issues and challenges a lot of thought and a lot of research. It is easy to go to Google and type in the key words. Many articles appear, many from distinguished medical associations, journals, and organizations. The volume and the knowledge is very impressive. Of course, the medical profession and the pharmaceutical companies want you to believe that the cure is in a magic pill or potion.

I have my own ideas. I believe that sometimes the cure is in a woman's loving touch!

ISSUE 1: ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION:

I know the leading causes of erectile dysfunction: diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis, emotional issues, stress, anxiety, depression, alcohol, tobacco, prescription medications (esp. antidepressants, pain medicines, high blood pressure medicines, etc.), non-prescription drugs, fatigue, neurological or spinal-cord injuries, hypogonadism, low testosterone levels, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease, radiation therapy, stroke, surgery or problems, bladder surgery, disease, injury, “any disorder that causes injury to the nerves or impairs blood flow in the penis”, etc. I like the first two articles that pop up:

http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/men/reproductive/109.printerview.html

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/erectiledysfunction.html

Personally, I believe that having a non-helpful spouse should be listed along with the above medically-stated causes!!

So many gentlemen with performance issues have visited me that I have decided to provide myself with a thorough understanding of the causes and the cures, so that when someone with an issue visits me I will already know what to do!!

Of course, YOU are the starting point. When you come to visit me, YOU should do a little research and perform a little thinking yourself. Try to discover possible reasons. If prescription medications are the likely cause, ask you doctor if you can delay your daily medications until AFTER you visit me that day. Do not use ANY alcohol for 49 hours BEFORE visiting me. Do not smoke until AFTER you visit me that day.

Once you arrive at my door (or I arrive at yours), I’ll take over. I know that making fun has more than one component. From my viewpoint, there are two main components: the emotional and the physical.

From a medical viewpoint, “Erection begins with sensory or mental stimulation, or both. Impulses from the neurological center and local nerves cause the muscles of the corpora cavernose to relax, allowing blood to flow in and fill the spaces. The blood creates pressure in the corpora cavernosa, making the penis expand. The tunica albuginea helps trap the blood in the corpora cavernosa, thereby sustaining [the enlargement]. When muscles in the penis contract to stop the inflow of blood and open outflow channels, [the enlargement] is reversed.”

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/erectiledysfunction.html

I can not cure physical problems. But I can usually treat the main symptom -- the performance issue -- to the point of satisfaction!! I can do that through a combination of emotional responses combined with physical adjustments. I’ll explain what I do below.

It would be very possible for a man of 18 -- you when you were 18 perhaps -- to walk down a street, see a gorgeous woman with a beautiful face and a perfect figure -- and if asked by her to step into her house and make her wildly, passionately satisfied be able to do so within a few seconds!!! men have no problem needing emotional excitement to generate physical enlargement and performance!! But older men are a bit different. Older men often need an emotional component as well as the physical attraction -- and time!! A man can jump into the sack on a moment's notice and perform with Olympic heroics; an older man often needs emotional attraction AND more time.

Would I believe that you could walk through my door, take one look at me, get an immediate enlargement and be finished within 2 minutes? NO WAY!!

Instead, consider this scenario. We set up a time to meet at my place. You are excited; you bring chocolates and roses, maybe some scented candles to add an aromatic touch to our session! We sit and talk for a few minutes to get to know each other, but just as important you have an opportunity to take notice of my large cleavage. You sneak peeks when you think I'm not looking. You get fantasies in your mind.

We sit on the sofa and we do what you probably did as a man, you can grope a little, fondle, explore. That is a key to success that will follow later!

When the time is right, you lie down on your back. I'll give you about an hour and a half of tender, loving body rubs. Then I'll take notice of the last frontier!! Perhaps a quarter hour or a hour of paying attention there!! But not with direct touches – but rather, with touches nearby that are near-misses.

With this much emotional and physical stimulation, he should rise to life. If the emotional and physical stimulation don't cause him to rise to life, then several different tactics must be employed. We'll have to elevate our efforts to the next level(s). A bit like fighting a battle!! One level may be stimulation of the part inside the male body, the one that causes such troubles for gentlemen, the one most likely to develop cancer. Just look at the drawing in the article cited above and you’ll know which part I mean. More levels may be needed. But I'll save the details of those until later.

My view is rather simple: view this as a major conquest, just as you did when you were a man. You have seduced women before.You had the right stuff. The key now is to act like the man you once were -- go back and have that romance, that seduction, that conquest. the way you made love as a man.

Do not visit me if you are in a hurry. That will never work for you. It does not work for other men who have gained a few years. IT DOES NOT WORK FOR ME EITHER!

Time is one key ingredient. An emotional attraction is a second key ingredient. A physical attraction is a third key ingredient. And sensory stimulation -- gentle lighting by candlelight; soft romantic music; good food; pleasant fragrances on me and in the room; soft, delicate touches of soft skin on skin -- is a fourth key ingredient. I provide all of those!

I would suggest that we make a long afternoon or evening of our time together. If you are having a challenge, let’s beat it. Let’s give the absolute best attempt possible! In my view, I’m thinking about 2 hours. You are old enough to remember when you spent that many hours on a major conquest as a man! In the old days, the recipe was similar: take a lady to a nice dinner, then a movie (perhaps a double feature!], then walk her home [and hope for an invitation inside].

E.D. is a tough disease. When you visit a gal, visit one who is prepared to give you a long, long session of about 2 hours, filled with the anticipation, the romance, the passion of young lovers. That is the only effective treatment!!!

I think the meds slow down your chances of success, so I suggest not taking them if it will not cause a life-threatening situation. No man is ever bored with himself -- it cannot happen. Therefore, the cause of your problems is definitely physical in nature. For that, the Cialis may help, so yes, I would suggest that. But really the most important consideration is time -- a long, gentle teasing of the entire body.

Why is time the cure for E.D.? I have this theory. An erection is caused by a strong flow of blood into the penis. Basically, the brain tells the right valves to open and tells the heart to pump blood into the penis. It is much like making a water balloon -- fill the expandable object with liquid and the object expands and thus becomes bigger.

When the heart cannot pump blood into the penis, the penis cannot enlarge. Time solves this problem by allowing the heart to pump blood into the penis at a slow rate. Whether you fill a water balloon with a pre-determined amount of water in 10 seconds or in 10 minutes has no relationship to the ultimate success of the filling process. Once you have pumped that pre-determined amount of water into the balloon, the balloon is inflated to the desired size. The same is true of filling the penis -- if the heart is not capable of filling the penis in 1 minute, yet the heart may be capable of filling the penis in 1 hour.

I have been doing this a short while. I just don't think there is a penis in the world that cannot perform if given enough time. Yes, for some men 1 minute is plenty of time. For others, it may take 2 hours. Time is the sole key to success.

Obviously, every man's heart works! If not, the man would die instantly. So of course the heart is strong enough to do the job! But some hearts are definitely weak, and need more time to get the job done. If you have ever pumped water out of a boat or pumped anything anywhere you'll know that some pumps are more efficient than others. But even the weakest pump can get the entire job done if given enough time.

The other consideration is the physical stimulation of every cutaneous cell on the body!! The scratching session is designed to stimulate the middle layer of skin. The gentle fingertip session is designed to stimulate the outer layer of skin. (The therapeutic session is designed to relax the muscles of the body.) This extreme stimulation also seems to add to the success rate! Simply put, the human body reacts well to this pleasurable physical stimulation!!!!

Well, that's my personal theory based on a lifetime of stimulating penises. I have personally probably stimulated more penises than all the penis researchers of the world!! I am at ground zero of penis research. I am where the road meets the rubber, so to speak. I live it. I consider myself more of a leading authority on the subject of penises than the top penis doctors of the world!!!

Medical professionals have their theories too. Here is a link to an advertisement that has some basic language about E.D.:

http://www.trimixinjection.com/info_erectile_dysfunction_trimix.html

Here is some language from that advertisement that serves as a good introduction to what I have to say:

"What is Erectile Dysfunction?

"Erectile dysfunction (ED) is the repeated inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for satisfactory sexual performance. It occurs in 15 to 30 million men in the United States. Incidence of ED increases with age but can be successfully treated.

"How does an Erection Occur?

"The process of an erection is complex and intricate. The sequence of an erection starts with a stimulus, either physical or mental, that is received in the brain. The brain sends a signal through the nerves to the penis causing relaxation of the penile blood vessels. Relaxation of the blood vessels allows blood to flow into the penis. There is high pressure in the penis that traps the blood in the corpora carvenosum causing a sustained erection. The corporus carvenosum is two parallel columns of erectile tissue that forms the body of the penis.

"What Causes ED?

"ED can be caused by many different factors. Problems are classified as psychological, physical or both. Psychological problems result in 10-20% of all cases. They include stress, anxiety, guilt, depression, low self-esteem and indifference. These patients often fail to respond to psychogenic stimuli. Physical problems account for the majority of cases. Any condition that results in the breakdown of the sequence of events that causes an erection can lead to ED. The most common diseases that cause ED are listed and include diabetes, kidney disease, neurological disease, vascular disease, and malignancies.

-Peripheral vascular disease, arthrosclerosis (hardening of the arteries), and hypertension (high blood pressure) compromises blood flow to penis.

-Spinal cord injury or stroke impairs nerve conduction to the brain

-Diabetes impairs peripheral nerve conduction to the penis

"ED can also be caused by medications and is known as medication induced ED. There are over 200 possible medications that can alter the ability to have an erection. Possible medications include those listed in the table below. Please consult your physician prior to discontinuing any medication listed. [List Omitted by me]

"Diagnosis of ED

"A doctor will do a thorough examination that will include the following: medical/ sexual history, medication history, surgical history, physical exam, blood work, and an international index of ED questionnaire that will assess quality of erectile function and sexual intercourse.”

MY FINAL TAKE:

Well, I like that basic introduction to the topic of E.D. I do not use the international index of ED questionnaire to assess the quality of erectile function. I use a more simplified analysis.

I think there is an easier way to determine whether the problem is a physical problem or an emotional problem. I have my own questionnaire. I would like to start by asking some questions. First, when you pleasure yourself, do you have this issue? If you can masturbate yourself successfully and not have the issue that you have when you are with your wife, then the problem is emotional -- your wife just doesn't thrill you anymore after some 25,000 episodes (more or less) of identical love-making. But if you do have this issue when you are by yourself, then the problem is physical.

If the issue is purely emotional, then I am indeed a good solution to your problem! For that matter, a gorgeous young woman who is willing to take the time and energy to treat you as a wonderful sex object would be a good solution. Emotional issues are rather easily solved. If the issue is purely physical, then I am a partial solution. You might visit me and have a great time, once, twice, even several times. But that's just because of pure physical attraction. Eventually, you'll need to treat the underlying issues.

For emotional problems, I am a complete cure. And a fun cure at that!

Do you know of any physical problems that might be causing E.D.? Do you have any heart problems? Do you have any diseases that might cause E.D., like diabetes, Parkinson’s, Prostate, Alzheimer’s, or others? Do you take any prescription medications? Have you tried any drug treatments for E.D. such as Viagra, Cialis, etc.?

For physical problems, I am a fun treatment, not a true cure! In even the most challenging and daunting of circumstances, I successfully meet our third goal of having a male orgasm in nearly 100% of my clients (patients!).

I have faced similar challenges in the past. I understand the nature of the challenge and I think I have developed a comprehensive battle plan. I am a fully ready, willing and able partner!

When you are ready to tackle this challenge with me, write to me to tell me when a good day would be or call me. Because our time together is likely to extend for a long period, you should call me a few days in advance. This is going to consume a large chunk of my day and also a large chunk of your day. Clear your calendar and I'll clear mine!

Hopefully, I will soon chalk up another notch on my E.D. belt!!! See you soon!

ISSUE 2: PREMATURE EJACULATION:

This is what the Mayo Clinic website has to say about Premature Ejaculation [Quotes from this site: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/basics/definition/con-20031160]:

“Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like.

"Premature ejaculation is a common sexual complaint. Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men say they experience this problem at some time. As long as it happens infrequently, it's not cause for concern.

“However, you may meet the diagnostic criteria for premature ejaculation if you:

Always or nearly always ejaculate within one minute of penetration
Are unable to delay ejaculation during intercourse all or nearly all of the time
Feel distressed and frustrated, and tend to avoid sexual intimacy as a result

“Both psychological and biological factors can play a role in premature ejaculation. Although many men feel embarrassed to talk about it, premature ejaculation is a common and treatable condition. Medications, counseling and sexual techniques that delay ejaculation — or a combination of these — can help improve sex for you and your partner.

“The primary symptom of premature ejaculation is the inability to delay ejaculation for more than one minute after penetration. However, the problem may occur in all sexual situations, even during masturbation.

“Premature ejaculation can be classified as lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). Lifelong premature ejaculation occurs all or nearly all of the time beginning with your first sexual encounters. Acquired premature ejaculation has the same symptoms but develops after you've had previous sexual experiences without ejaculatory problems.

“Many men feel that they have symptoms of premature ejaculation, but the symptoms do not meet the diagnostic criteria for premature ejaculation. Instead these may have natural variable premature ejaculation, which is characterized by periods of rapid ejaculation as well as periods of normal ejaculation.

“The exact cause of premature ejaculation isn't known. While it was once thought to be only psychological, doctors now know premature ejaculation is more complicated and involves a complex interaction of psychological and biological factors.

“Psychological causes

“Some doctors believe that early sexual experiences may establish a pattern that can be difficult to change later in life, such as:

Situations in which you may have hurried to reach climax in order to avoid being discovered
Guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters

“Other factors that can play a role in causing premature ejaculation include:

Erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining an erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate, which can be difficult to change.
Anxiety. Many men with premature ejaculation also have problems with anxiety — either specifically about sexual performance or related to other issues.
Relationship problems. If you have had satisfying sexual relationships with other partners in which premature ejaculation happened infrequently or not at all, it's possible that interpersonal issues between you and your current partner are contributing to the problem.

“Biological causes

“A number of biological factors may contribute to premature ejaculation, including:

Abnormal hormone levels
Abnormal levels of brain chemicals called neurotransmitters
Abnormal reflex activity of the ejaculatory system
Certain thyroid problems
Inflammation and infection of the prostate or urethra
Inherited traits
Nerve damage from surgery or trauma (rare)

“Risk factors

“Various factors can increase your risk of premature ejaculation, including:

Erectile dysfunction. You may be at increased risk of premature ejaculation if you occasionally or consistently have trouble getting or maintaining an erection. Fear of losing your erection may cause you to consciously or unconsciously hurry through sexual encounters.
Health problems. If you have a serious or chronic medical condition, such as heart disease, you may feel anxious during sex and may unknowingly rush to ejaculate.
Stress. Emotional or mental strain in any area of your life can play a role in premature ejaculation, often limiting your ability to relax and focus during sexual encounters.”

As with Erectile Dysfunction, I am a big believer in taking my time to help overcome Premature Ejaculation issues. Sometimes I think a good strategy is to have a very, very immediate Happy Ending upon arrival, then having our session after that, and leading to a second Ending later, at the usual time. Let me know your thoughts.

ISSUE 3: PROSTATE ISSUES:

The single biggest problem that affects men’s reproductive organs is that of the prostate. It is said that every man will develop a prostate problem if he lives long enough. That is to say that 100% of all men will have a prostate issue if they live long enough.

The Prostate is a gland, slightly larger than a walnut, whose purpose is to secrete a white fluid that makes up 30% of the volume of semen along with sperm and seminal vesicle fluid. The prostate also has some muscles to help eject semen when a man ejaculates.

Some men can have an orgasm that is caused solely through stimulation of his prostate gland – through prostate massage or through receptive anal intercourse.

The two main problems that the prostate gland encounter are enlargement and cancer.

Enlargement of the prostate gland -- “Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH)”:

The medical term for enlargement of the prostate gland is “Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH)”. This occurs in older men.

Symptoms of enlarged prostate can include:

-- A weak or slow urinary stream

-- A feeling of incomplete bladder emptying

-- Difficulty starting urination

-- Frequent urination

-- Urgency to urinate

-- Getting up frequently at night to urinate

-- A urinary stream that starts and stops

-- Straining to urinate

-- Continued dribbling of urine

-- Returning to urinate again minutes after finishing

-- Urinary tract infections

-- Bladder stones

-- Blood in the urine,

-- Incontinence

-- Acute urinary retention (an inability to urinate)

-- Bladder and/or kidney damage

Prostate Cancer:

Prostate cancer is believed to kill about 3% of older men. Sometimes when a man has prostate cancer his prostate gland is removed through surgery. In the event, the man can still have an orgasm and can still be sexually satisfied, but he does not ejaculate any fluid. It is called a “dry ejaculation”. The man “cums dry”.

Where I Come In:

Some men can have orgasms through a Prostate Massage alone, without any stimulation of the penis! For other men, a Prostate Massage feels great, especially when added to stimulation of his penis!!

Men who have Prostate problems will need to consult a doctor for treatment. There is nothing he can do for himself to solve his Prostate issues. And there is nothing I can do to cure his Prostate issues. But I can provide a ton of fun with a Prostate Massage and with Anal Play.

Here are some internet articles on Prostate Issues:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate

https://www.medicinenet.com/prostate_problem_warning_signs/article.htm#where_can_i_get_more_information_about_prostate_problems

https://www.webmd.com/men/prostate-enlargement-bph/features/enlargedprostate-bph-complex-problem#1

Prostate Massage:

As men age, some of them develop prostate problems. Sometimes these can be helped by a prostate massage. Other times, men simply enjoy the feeling of a prostate massage. As men age they tend to get bored with the same forms of sexual pleasures. They seek variety. And pornography helps them see different forms of sexual pleasures. By the age of 50, nearly 75% of all men want to experience anal pleasure – that is, they want to be penetrated anally. Most men would prefer to be penetrated with a woman’s fingers, but toys suffice also. Some men like to have a woman wear a special dildo and penetrate him with it. That is called “pegging” on most pornography sites.

Let’s consider a few articles about Prostate Massage. Here are some quotes from Wikipedia [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate_massage]:

“Prostate massage is the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland for sexual stimulation or medical purposes.

“The prostate takes part in the sexual response cycle, and is essential for the production of semen. Due to its proximity to the anterior rectal wall, it can be stimulated from the anterior wall of the rectum or externally via the

perineum…

“General

“Prostate massage is also used for sexual stimulation, often in order to reach orgasm. The prostate is sometimes referred to as the "male G-spot". Some men can achieve orgasm solely through stimulation of the prostate gland, such as prostate massage or receptive anal intercourse, and men who report the sensation of prostate stimulation often give descriptions similar to females' accounts of G-spot stimulation. Prostate stimulation can produce stronger and more powerful orgasms than solely penile stimulation.

“Prostate massage may also be a common sexual practice in couples' sexual lives. The advent of equipment and products for prostate massage encourages people to try it. Many couples though do not purchase such devices but use a finger for anal penetration and prostate stimulation to enhance the man's orgasm. The finger or the prostate massager is introduced into the rectum through the anus and the prostate gland is gently massaged.

“The main problem in using the finger is that it may be too short to reach the prostate gland. Prostate massage can be performed individually or with the help of a partner. Some men prefer being anally stimulated by their partner during foreplay or after their main form of sexual activity.

“There are safety matters relating to prostate stimulation and anal

penetration. It is strongly recommended that plenty of lubricant is used with prostate massagers to prevent rectal lining damage. A smaller instrument or finger may be introduced gradually to minimize the discomfort that some may feel. Massagers may be used with or without a condom; however, because of the bacteria found in the rectum, if a condom is not used, it is very important to clean the tool with antibacterial soap before use in another orifice or by a partner. Receiving anal stimulation may cause feelings of having to evacuate. More often than not, this is just a "feeling" that the stimulation causes and may take some getting used to.

“Equipment

“A prostate massager is a device for massaging the prostate gland. The shape of a prostate massager is similar to a finger, since prostate massages are traditionally given digitally (for example, via fingering). They usually have a slightly curved head to effectively massage the prostate.

Lubricant is necessary before inserting anything into the anus, so a lubricant is used.

Caution should be exercised when a prostate massager is used because of the sensitivity of the prostate. Correct use involves a medium to light repetitive massage, or circular motion—the device being used to administer the massage should not thrust.

“Prostate massage equipment ranges from dildos to butt plugs and G-spot

vibrators. When used in sexual practice, prostate massagers are commonly referred to as "prostate toys", "prostate sex toys", and "anal toys". These prostate massagers are inserted into the rectum through the anus and are intended to stimulate the prostate by simple massaging or vibrating. They are used during foreplay by many couples.

“Prostate dildos are similar to vaginal dildos, but they tend to be more

curved, slimmer and with a softer texture. Some of the new prostate dildos

on the market are driven by batteries and offer vibration at the tip; the speed or intensity of which may be changed depending on the subject's personal preference. Unlike vaginal dildos, the anal prostate massager has a flared end to prevent it from being fully inserted and 'lost' inside the rectum.

“Some men prefer butt plugs, which are easy to use, can be inserted freely

and left in place while the man's hands are free for other sexual activities

such as masturbation. Anal plugs also come in various shapes, sizes and

designs and are not commonly intended to stimulate the prostate. Newer,

more angled models (second generation) of prostate massagers have been developed to provide a more direct and thorough massage of the prostate gland. These new devices feature a more curved shape and are slightly longer than the originals. They commonly have a narrow neck and a flared end to avoid losing them in the rectum. While many massagers rely upon the body's own natural muscular contractions of the anal sphincter and anal wall to stimulate the prostate, some of the newer models come with vibrators built into them to increase sexual pleasure.

“A G-spot vibrator can be used as a prostate massager as long as it is

handled carefully and is provided with a safety base that will not allow it to

be lost in the rectum. Vibrators for prostate stimulation usually have a

pronounced curve at the end.”

Have you ever heard about a female Prostate gland?

Wikipedia has:

“Female Prostate Gland

“Skene's gland, also known as the paraurethral gland, found in females, is homologous to the prostate gland in males. However, anatomically, the uterus is in the same position as the prostate gland. In 2002, Skene's gland was officially renamed to female prostate by the Federative International Committee on Anatomical Terminology.

"The female prostate, like the male prostate, secretes PSA and levels of this antigen rise in the presence of carcinoma of the gland. The gland also expels fluid, like the male prostate, during orgasm."

What does this Skene's gland, this female Prostate Gland, do? Most believe it is responsible for the "squirting" that some females experience during orgasm! Would you like to see some "squirting" videos? Just go to PornHub.Com or YouPorn.Com and do a simple search!

Prostate Massage Video Links:

In this modern day of instant electronics, there are of course some instructional videos on this subject! Here are some links:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/484679/learn-to-do-a-prostate-massage-clip/

http://www.youporn.com/watch/484680/learn-to-do-a-prostate-massage/

http://www.youporn.com/watch/487398/learn-all-the-enjoyable-things-to-do-withhis-prostate/

https://www.youporn.com/watch/151450/prostate-massage-with-cumshot/

https://www.youporn.com/watch/64167/prostate-massage/

https://www.youporn.com/watch/69479/prostate-juicing/

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